Redwood the Sacred Muse
Surrogate Partner & Intimacy Guide
Ready to get your groove back?
When was the last time you felt deep intimacy, strong lust, or powerful pleasure?
Who this is for
I work with all sexual and gender expressions, and specialize in working with cis-women. This work is for anyone in need of tools and support getting out of their intimate and erotic ruts, as well as those healing trauma and wounding inflicted by men and toxic masculine culture.
What we’ll do together
Experience more pleasure than you ever thought possible
Explore your erotic desires and fantasies
Heal your wounds around toxic masculinity and men
Learn to develop deep intimacy with yourself and others
Focus your creative energy into what you care about most
I’ll support you with
Discovering and expanding your orgasmic capacity
Deprogramming from Purity Culture
Healing shame
Somatic trauma healing
Exploring kink and non-monogamy
Attracting your ideal partner rather than the same old wounded people
About Me
My erotic journey began as a deeply shy, introverted and closeted teen. While my peers were dating and exploring sex I was home watching movies with my parents. I’ve always been a romantic with an abundance of lust, but I had no clue how to admit my feelings, much less act on them. Finally, after college I began studying the intricate arts of courtship, pleasure, and intimacy. Slowly I came out of my shell and gained the confidence to date and create meaningful relationships. Eventually I met and married the love of my life, and after a while opened our relationship to explore the tumultuous yet beautiful world of non-monogamy. I came out as queer and kinky and feel more authentic and alive than ever. My own healing and growth as a complex erotic being gives me immense empathy and understanding for my clients and their unique paths.
Now with over twenty years of immersive study, training, and experience alongside leading figures in sacred sexuality and holistic healing, I’ve cultivated a unique ability to guide people through healing trauma and experiencing profound personal transformation. I offer a grounded and transformative space for you to explore your sensual and erotic potential, heal old wounds, and cultivate a deep, loving relationship with yourself and others
In my free time I enjoy canoeing on rivers, cycling on country roads, and singing around a fire with people I love. Fun fact: I’ve read over 1,000 romance books!
My Approach
I draw from and blend many modalities and pathways for healing and development into my work. From:
Internal Family Systems parts work to the Wheel of Consent.
Sessions
Sessions with me are a grounded and sexy space to heal, explore, and create. Each session begins with discussing where you are now, and where you want to be. I’ll coach you around your desires and stumbling blocks. Then we’ll get into our bodies for some experiential exploration and touch. Depending on what’s called for, this may include one-way and two-way touch, with clothes on or off.
Each session will complete with a debrief and discussing practices to help integrate your experience into daily life.
Some examples of fun things we may get up to:
Sensual massage
Play wrestling
Exploring kinks
Sensual dance
Tantra
And much more…
On average, most clients work with me for 6 to 12 months. I’m also open to exploring shorter containers or one-off sessions with people who are a good fit.
Cost
In Person:
Individual: $300/hour
Couples: $400/hour
+ Travel, 2 hour minimum
Zoom: $300 for a 90 minute session
Testimonials
“I chose to work with Redwood after going through two big breakups in a short span of time. It made me question myself as a romantic partner and what I wanted and needed in future relationships. I also felt stuck in my work. Traditional therapy helped address some issues surrounding sensuality and relationships, but didn’t lend itself to providing the deeper support and practice that I needed to truly incorporate changes into my life. With Redwood’s coaching, I have a much better understanding of my own eros energy and much more confidence in myself as a sensual being. I've also learned to voice my needs and desires, which was a big area of difficulty for me. The biggest area of growth has been learning more about myself and my needs, as well as the confidence to voice everything to my partner. This has made me feel like I am in a much less vulnerable position when I’m ready to start a new relationship because I’m more aware of and have practiced how to confidently ask for what I want from a partner and what boundaries I need to set. I’ve also discovered the power and confidence to leave my job and work for myself! Redwood creates a very individualized, tailored experience which allows for so much more growth than traditional therapy because it lets me go beyond simply verbally processing my needs but physically feeling, understanding and practicing what I need, want, and am capable of.”
-Sionna
“I used to frequently feel dissociation and shame arise with my pleasure. I wanted to become unleashed and unapologetic in my innate birthright to feel my pleasure. I had read books, talked to therapists, and endlessly wondered with friends about how to transform this. After working with Redwood I feel an expanded capacity for pleasure, I've come to know and love the parts of me that feel afraid and ashamed, and I'm connecting with new erotic and creative parts that are super supportive in my everyday life, my work in the world, and my intimate relationship. Now I feel way more grounded in my truth, no longer afraid of my shame, power, or my pleasure. I know I am whole and that I'm continuing to peel back layers as I discover more and more capacity in myself. This style of embodied work with Redwood, in a safe and healing container is so potent. It has been so supportive in ways that other modalities simply aren't.”
-Willow